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Technology And Mom Shaming: How to End the Shame Game

How to End Mom Shaming?



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    Let’s unravel the curious connection between technology and this thing we call mom shaming. A strange pair, you think? Maybe not. As it turns out, these seemingly unrelated pieces of our modern world are more intertwined than you think. Mom shaming means bullying a mom for her parenting style. Sometimes moms also get shamed for not knowing enough about technology—at least not as much as their tech-savvy kids do. It might not sound like a big deal, but if you’re a mom who asks her son or daughter for help with your gadgets, could you really tell if your kid is safe in the online world or not? So, let’s explore digital judgment, and find out how we can get rid of mom shaming for good.


    What Is Mom Shaming in the Digital Age?

    We can define mom shaming as the unsolicited, often harsh judgment passed on mothers for their parenting decisions. It’s when you’re at the playground, and another parent raises an eyebrow at your kid’s store-bought lunch, or when you get a snide comment on your Instagram post about letting your little one watch a bit of TV.

    Speaking of tech, let’s go through some mom-shaming examples in the digital world. It’s the mom-troll hidden behind the screen, criticizing your choice of educational apps, or the sanctimommies in Facebook parenting groups shaming you for not making organic, home-cooked meals every single day.

    Now, don’t get us wrong. Parenting is tough, and we’re all just trying to do our best. But that constant barrage of judgment? It’s doing more harm than good. Not only does it chip away at parents’ confidence, leaving them second-guessing their every move, it also adds an unnecessary layer of stress and guilt. And let’s not forget about the kids. The parent-child relationship can take a hit too, as parents’ anxieties can often trickle down to their children.


    A mother being a victim of mom shaming


    The Role of Technology in Parenting

    It’s undeniable that technology has slipped into the parenting world as smoothly as a smartphone slides into a back pocket, offering us conveniences we never knew we needed. Suddenly, we’ve got a wealth of information at our fingertips—literally! Need a quick dinner recipe? Done. Want to know if that strange rash on your kid’s arm is a cause for concern? An online doctor’s advice is just a click away. And let’s not forget the exciting educational and developmental opportunities it brings. There’s an app for everything these days, from teaching your toddler to count to helping your teenager learn a new language.

    But just like trying to get your baby into a onesie that’s one size too small, technology in parenting comes with its own set of challenges. There’s the ever-present comparison game, with every social media feed brimming with pictures of picture-perfect families, sparking that dreaded mom guilt. Then there’s the tricky task of balancing screen time with, say, tree-climbing time. And let’s not even get started on the minefield that is online safety and privacy.

    So, like every good parent knows, it’s all about finding that sweet spot. The perfect blend of embracing technology’s benefits while staying aware of its potential pitfalls. But hey, if you’ve managed to survive potty training, this is surely a piece of cake, right?


    Ending Mom Shaming and Navigating Technology

    You know, how some folks think they can judge your parenting style. But hey, don’t sweat it. We’re here to get rid of mom shaming and embrace technology as our new best friend in the parenting world. Let’s explore how you can be a tech-savvy momma without feeling like you’re on a reality TV show.


    Setting Healthy Boundaries for Technology Use

    First up, let’s talk about setting some boundaries. Think of it as training wheels for tech. It’s about finding a happy medium where technology is a tool, not an electronic babysitter. Maybe it means no screens at dinner, or perhaps a tech-free hour before bedtime. The key is to make the rules work for your family.


    Engaging in Mindful and Intentional Parenting

    Mindful parenting is all about being present and intentional with your kids – not just physically, but emotionally too. So, while your little one is on their tablets, instead of checking emails, spend some time engaging with them about what they’re doing. Ask questions, show interest, be involved.


    Promoting Digital Literacy and Responsible Online Behavior

    Now, onto digital literacy. It’s not about knowing all the latest emojis or being able to snap a perfect selfie. It’s about understanding how to use technology responsibly and teaching your kids the difference between a digital playground and a digital jungle. It’s about fostering a sense of respect and responsibility for online spaces.


    Modeling Positive Technology Behaviors for Children

    Moving right along, let’s talk about being a role model. Just like your kid watches how you talk to others or handle stress, they’re watching how you use technology. Use this as an opportunity to show them the right way to engage with tech. Show them that it’s okay to unplug sometimes and that technology should enhance, not replace, real-life experiences.


    Using Parental Control Apps and Tools for Guidance

    Lastly, let’s not forget about parental control apps and tools. These are like your secret weapon in the fight against excessive screen time and inappropriate content. Use them to guide your kid and give yourself some peace of mind. Just remember, these tools are not a replacement for open conversation and education about responsible tech use.


    Tech-savvy mom knows how to teach her kids how to use a tablet


    How Can Safes Help Parents with Setting Healthy Boundaries? 

    Now, parenting in the digital age can be a roller coaster ride, right? But don’t fret, Safes is here to lend a hand. It’s a parental control app that can help you draw the line in a good way, setting healthy boundaries for your kid on the internet and their gadgets.


    No matter if it’s an Android, iOS, Windows, or Mac, Safes has your back. With this app, you can manage screen time, block iffy content, and even keep an eye on who your kids are chatting with online. It’s like your own personal internet safety net, making sure your little one can explore, learn, and play safely. After all, the internet’s a big place, but with Safes, you can rest easy knowing your kid is protected.


    Wish to learn more about how to parental controls on different devices with Safe? Follow the links below:


    Empowering Parents in the Digital Age

    Being a parent in this day and age is nothing short of an adventurous ride, and we’re here to make sure you enjoy every bit of it. So, get ready to be empowered with the best tips and tricks to help you navigate through the digital parenting maze.

    Embrace Your Inner Superhero: Remember, nobody’s perfect, and neither are you. And that’s okay! It’s high time we realized that self-compassion and self-acceptance are not just words, but superpowers. So, give yourself a big bear hug, and remember, it’s okay to stumble, as long as you pick yourself up and keep going.

    Find Your Tribe: Parenting can feel like a lonely journey at times, but remember, you’re not alone. Explore vibrant online communities of parents who are sailing the same boat as you. Share your experiences, learn from theirs, and watch how this camaraderie lightens your parenting journey!

    Knowledge is Power: In this digital age, resources and educational opportunities are just a click away. From tips on managing screen time to recognizing cyber threats, make use of these resources to stay one step ahead. So, go on, be a knowledge-thirsty sponge, and soak it all up!

    Be the Change: Advocacy isn’t just for causes, it’s for people too. Advocate for a culture that accepts and supports every parent, irrespective of their parenting style. Let’s break stereotypes, shatter stigmas, and create an accepting society for every parent out there.

    Celebrate the Colors of Parenting: Just as every child is unique, so is every parent. And this diversity is what makes the world of parenting so beautiful. So, celebrate your uniqueness and respect the diversity in parenting choices. After all, it’s not about right or wrong, it’s about what works best for you and your child.


    Mom Shaming: Conclusion

    We told you about Safes, a handy parental control app. It’s your faithful sidekick for setting those all-important boundaries in the digital world kids are navigating. It helps you manage screen time, block inappropriate content, and keep an eye on your child’s online activities.

    Parenting in the digital age is like trying to ride a unicycle on a tightrope, blindfolded—no small feat! So, give yourself a pat on the back and remember, self-compassion isn’t just nice, it’s essential.

    You’re not alone. There’s a big community of digital-age parents out there, so reach out, connect, and learn from each other. Be bold, take advantage of resources and learning opportunities, and stand up for a culture of acceptance and support. Your parenting style is as unique as your fingerprint, and that’s something to celebrate.



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    Download Safes Kids for Chrombook

    1. Install the Safes Kids app on your Chromebook from Google Play. 
    2. Pair Safes Kids with parent app. Follow the instructions in the app to pair your child’s device with your parent device.  
    3. Add the Safe Kids Chrome extension. Open Chrome and go to the Chrome Web Store. 
    4. Navigate to the Manage extensions page. Click the three dots in the top right corner of Chrome and select “Extensions”>”Manage Extensions”>”Details”
    5. Turn on “Allow in incognito mode” This will allow the Safe Kids extension to work in incognito mode, which is important if your child uses incognito mode to try to bypass the parental controls.
    6. Select Safes extension and follow on-screen instruction

    Download Safes Kids for Android

    Download the Android Kid’s app directly to get the full features!

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    Safe Kids is available on the Google Play Store, but if you download it directly from our website, you will get access to Call and SMS monitoring feature, You can monitor the phone calls of your child’s device, as well as the contacts and messages they have sent and received, including those containing inappropriate content.