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The Effects of Social Media on Parents Parenting

Mohammad

Mohammad

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    It’s been over a decade since the first social media platforms, as we know them today, were created. Many of the young adults and teenagers who used social media now have children of their own. Nowadays, social media doesn’t only negatively affect individuals, it also affects their relationships with others. One of the most vulnerable relationships is between parents and their children. The majority of the effects of social media on parents’ parenting are negative. For example, parenting styles can be affected by an overuse of social media. As we’ll see, there are ways to control social media usage in families so as to minimize the negative effects.

     

    Negative Effects of Social Media on Parents Parenting 

    As we mentioned above, the majority of the effects of social media on parents’ parenting are negative. These negative effects have two primary causes: 

    • Overusing social media: It’s not that social media is inherently bad, rather, parents might become addicted and delegate more important kid-related tasks to later. 
    • The comparative nature of social media: Most social media platforms, especially the most popular ones, make users feel like the number of “likes,” “followers,” etc., are important. 

    Losing Valuable Family Time 

    The immediate effect of overusing social media is losing valuable family time. Liking posts on Instagram isn’t a waste of time by itself. The point is not what we’re doing on social media, but what we’re missing out on, such as playing with our kids. 

    But regulating social media use isn’t just to play with children. It can also help us rest in our alone time. Surfing social media for long hours doesn’t count as rest, especially since it usually leaves us more tired than refreshed. 

     

    Comparing Children and Parenting Styles 

    A big portion of the following of many parents is other parents. Maybe it’s because they’re part of their social circles, or maybe they’re just strangers that seem to have a cool life. The point is that people consciously or unconsciously compare themselves to others. And if you’re following a parent constantly posting about how awesome their child is, it can lead to low self-esteem on your part. Worse, you might start comparing your child’s “successes” with other children’s. 

    There’s nothing wrong with learning from other parents, in fact, as we’ll find out, it’s a great benefit of using social media. But parents might exaggerate their child’s accomplishments for effect when posting on social media. And even if they’re not, we should take them with a grain of salt. 

     

    Oversharing Personal Moments 

    It’s easy to judge other parents as too oversharing. But if parents in this day and age are too oversharing, there’s a good chance that you overshare as well. You might not think so but the issue with oversharing isn’t just boring others, it can also lead to overkill. 

    What we mean by overkill here, is that parents might become increasingly used to taking photos of special moments instead of experiencing them then and there. For example, the first time their child starts to walk on their own, they might rush to grab a phone and start recording. As your child grows older, this fetishization of capturing moments can get annoying for them, not to mention those who follow you. 

     

    Dad taking photo of a child kissing her mom

     

    Positive Effects of Social Media on Parents Parenting 

    If social media was just a list of negative effects it wouldn’t have captured our attention as a society as it has. Here we’ll talk about two of the most important positive effects of social media on parents’ parenting.  

     

    Learning Parenting Tips 

    As mentioned above, following other parents can lead to learning from them. It’s incredible that we can learn from the experience of others who are on the other side of the world, because of having the same lived experience, namely being a parent. 

    There’s also a lot of information you can get by checking out accounts that focus on child psychology, parenting styles, and much more. Faster learning might be the greatest benefit of social media, and more generally, of the internet. 

     

    Connecting with Children 

    It’s probable that your child has at least one social media account before you do. It’s also highly probable that you don’t follow each other, which is a shame. We can’t exile social media from families entirely, so it might be best to learn to live with it properly. 

    Children have learned to express themselves, their feelings, and their thoughts, online through social media. By connecting with your children in the digital world, you get a lot of benefits such as: 

    • Being up-to-date with your child 
    • Seeing who their friends are 
    • Evaluating what type of content they interact with 
    • Having a new medium to contact and connect with your child 

    How Should You Balance Your Family’s Social Media Usage? 

    Balancing a family’s social media usage is no easy feat, and it might need a confident parenting style. But there are a few tips parents can use to start things off. 

     

    Prioritize Your Child 

    If you see that your child is bored, if they’re talking to you, or want your attention, understand that it means it’s time for the phones to go away. Prioritizing your child’s needs is the most important guideline you can use for parenting. Whenever you’re using social media, think of whether your time could be better used if you were interacting with your child or resting, or doing anything else.  

    Limiting your own screen time might also be a good idea. Try to keep tabs on how much time you spend on social media. Some social media apps have built-in settings that tell you how much you’ve used them. Your phone might also report such data in its settings. The recommended amount of screen time for adults is approximately 30 minutes. You might not be able to stick to that but try your best. 

     

    Limit Your Child’s Screen Time 

    There’s no point in limiting your screen time or waiting on your child to call for your attention if they’re also addicted to their phone. Therefore, limiting your child’s screen time is an important part of the deal. Though there are different types of parental control, the best way to limit screen time is to use a parental control app. Parental control apps make parenting in the digital era a lot easier. 

    Safes is a parental control app that allows you to not only limit your child’s screen time but also: 

    • Limit each app’s screen time separately 
    • Block an app entirely 
    • Set a schedule for social media use 

    To learn more about Safes and its pricing, feel free to download the app and try out your trial period for free.

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    Mohammad

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