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A Parent's Guide to Teaching Teenagers Social Media Responsibility



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    Where I went to school, cellphones were banned since it was believed that no good came out of them. According to Pew Research Center, in 2022, approximately 20% of teenagers are constantly on YouTube. And that’s just one of the many popular social media platforms that exist nowadays. Platforms like YouTube, have a lot of benefits for teenagers. For example, they can watch educational videos for free. A big problem is that banning phones, tablets, and computers that let teenagers gain access to social media doesn’t work. You need to start teaching social media responsibility to teenagers as soon as possible. 


    Is There a Proper Use of Social Media for Youth? 

    The reason teenagers have to learn to be responsible for their social media use is that you can’t be there to check their social media constantly. You can’t be there to tell them how much time they should spend on social media, what sort of people they should interact with, etc. 

    Younger people tend to have more trouble trying to understand long-term risks and rewards. This isn’t specific to social media. This culture of instant gratification leads to many teenagers not being able to see the bad in social media. That’s the bad news. 

    The good news is that social media can be used responsibly. Teenagers just need to get used to it. If used responsibly, social media can be a valuable learning tool. Think of it as eating chocolate; there’s a huge gap between the first sweet bite and diabetes. But it’s easy to start chewing and forget the need to stop before it’s too late.


    How to Use Social Media Responsibly 

    The first thing you have to do is to talk to your teenage child and explain what constitutes responsible use of social media. For example, posting an inappropriate photo or video is certainly not a responsible act. But the funny thing about responsibilities is that the person responsible has to first know about them. You have to make sure that your teenager understands what the rules of the house are; both in the real world and the digital one. 

    One great way of doing this is by weighing rights and responsibilities. For example, you can make a list of the social media rights your child has, ranging from access to social media to posting photos, to screen time limits. Normally, these are rights that are taken for granted and that’s all right. Your child doesn’t need to earn these rights. Instead, they start with these rights. Bad behavior limits their rights, or in extreme cases takes those rights away from them, and good behavior increases their rights. So, you both have a negative and positive feedback loop at your disposal. 

    Now make a list of social media responsibilities. These responsibilities will dictate the rules your child has to play by to earn a reward. The rules and responsibilities can also be written in one table, as the example below shows, but it doesn’t mean there’s a one-to-one correlation between each rule and reward. The point is for your teenager to know what the rules of the game are because it doesn’t make sense to be punished or rewarded when they don’t have a clue what they’re risking. 

    Rights Responsibilities 
    Access to information and entertainment Being sensitive when making comments 
    Freedom of expression 

    Social Interaction 


    Keeping safe (not giving out personal information about themselves or others) 

    Not bullying or abusing 

    Gamifying this process can help get your teenager on the same page as you. But you still have to make the reasons behind this process clear. Explain the pros and cons of using social media. And then explain how using it responsibly can counter the cons. Maybe talk about the dangers of posting children’s pictures on social media or the negative effects of social media on physical health. These can help your teenager understand why learning social media responsibility is a must. 

    Should Schools Be Responsible for Teaching Safe Social Media Education? 

    In general, teaching social media Etiquette should be part of a teenager’s education in the digital age. Like all education, it can happen both at school and at home. The advantage that schools have over parents is that they can teach a whole group of teenagers at once. Teenagers are much more likely to welcome the idea of responsible use when they see their peers doing it as well. 


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    Rules for Using Social Media Responsibly 

    Rules might differ in every household, depending on your values, and your child. But in general, there are a few rules you should keep in mind when teaching social media responsibility to your child. 

    Limiting Screen Time 

    Screen time is a right that children have, but you can limit the amount of screen time you allow your child. Determining the amount of screen time can be based on how responsible your teenager is. For example, not having a limit is a good idea if they do their homework, but if they’re prone to be distracted it might be a good idea to determine a screen time limit. 

    Not Sharing Private Information  

    Social issues among teenagers in the age of the internet sometimes make sharing information with their peers easier than with their families. But teenagers might not always be aware of the dangers of sharing personal information with others on the internet.  

    This personal information might be shared directly, like giving out their full name to strangers, or indirectly like posting a picture of where they live on Instagram. The things your kid should not post on Instagram or other social media platforms should be made clear to them.  It’s not a bad idea to also have a chat about how much privacy should a teenager have on the internet. 

    Not Bullying 

    It’s not impossible for your child to bully others. This can sometimes happen accidentally. Teenagers are growing up in a digital environment and are getting used to being anonymous. They might hurt others’ feelings unintentionally. Or worse, they might comment mean things because they don’t fully understand how much it will influence their peer. Try to see what their answer is to how social media affects teenagers’ self-esteem. 


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    Install a Parental Control App 

    Parental control apps can make enforcing rules much easier than normal. Usually, you’ll have to keep checking on your child to see if they’re using social media. By using Safes, you can: 

    • Limit your child’s screen time 
    • Set a schedule for each app 
    • Instantly block your child’s apps 

    The best thing is that you enforce all these rules without the need to be in the vicinity of your child. So even when they go to school or to a friend’s house “to do homework,” you can control your child’s social media usage. Since Safes’s schedules and screen time limits can be changed whenever you want, you can use the app as a tool for the positive and negative feedback loops mentioned above. 

    To learn more about Safes’s features and pricing, feel free to download the app or contact us with your questions in the comments below.



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